There are so many ways to live your
life. I choose to live fabulous. It really is okay to live your life the way
you want to live. We don’t need anyone’s
permission on how we choose to live.
This is very important to note because there will be people who act as
if you need to run any changes you make by them. You may choose as a courtesy,
to share goals with family members or friends – that is your choice. Do you
have to run things past your neighbor or colleagues – again your choice. There is a difference between telling someone
what I am going to do and asking them. Sometimes that distinction is not realized.
There are some instances when you may need
a conversation with a spouse about things simply because your life partners –
hopefully he’ll be supportive. I’m not
talking about a new dress, or how you choose to wear your hair – I think every
diva can handle that. There will be
situations as you pursue your fabulous lifestyle that may require a careful, agreed
upon, thought-out plan. For example, going back to school if you have young
children will require a meeting of the minds.
People that love you will help you make good decisions that keep you
happy and help you reach your goals.
People who verbally or none verbally show
their disapproval (disrespectfully) on how you live, what you choose to wear
and other choices you may make, could easily end up in the non-factor category.
If you are making good choices for
yourself and dressing well, you are in a good place – stay there. The one thing you need to realize is, if you
didn’t ask for an opinion, there really is no reason to care what they think,
especially if they are showing their disapproval in a rude way. People who are in your circle should be
supportive. What’s funny is, it usually
is the person with no fashion sense, no sense at all that has the strongest
negative opinion. We are so far away from the junior high school bullying
situation of yesteryear. It would be
advantageous for this person to focus on her wonderful life and leave yours
alone. Unfortunately, this type of
person never worries about themselves.
They are often too busy worrying about everyone else. When you improve
your life and others refuse to, some folks may get annoyed by your growth and
development. This is their problem, not
yours – don’t worry about it. Live your
life girl and if you choose to be fabulous you are in good company. Do everything as much as is in your power to
move forward in your life in a positive way – that is what divas do.
Girls just want to have fun is a true
statement. I love to joke and be silly –
a good laugh is therapy for the soul.
Going on walks clears my head, nonsense is filed away and peace takes
over. I love music and writing go
figure, I’m a blogger. =) I believe that there is a time and a place for
everything. I just love dressing for formal occasions. When I’m at work I dress
professionally. I love clothes, bags,
etc. So that’s an easy and fun move for me.
I focus on my job and do the best job that I can. When I’m at home oh you know I throw the
sweats on, but yes they're cute too. What’s fabulous about my life is, I choose
to live it my way. I’m the architect of
this building and I definitely have plans.
Living fabulous is living rich and I don’t
mean with money, although currency has its benefits. I’m speaking strictly about quality of
life. Make every moment count diva, we
only get one life. There is a big world
to explore out there. There are people
we need to meet that we don’t know yet. There are friendships we need to form
and experiences we need to have. So yes,
I choose to live fabulous, I choose to enjoy my life, and you should too. I choose, and I make no apologies for
that. Can I get an amen!
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