Saturday, July 7, 2018

Do yourself a favor and don’t marry a loser.  There are times when you can compromise.  You can accept certain behaviors and beliefs that are not necessarily your own.  But, when you marry someone who is your polar opposite you are signing on for more than you know.  There are people out there that have decided to make “How low can you go” their anthem.  At some point you will have to decide, do you want to lower your standards so low to get a spouse that you can no longer recognize yourself.  What is your happiness worth to you, hopefully, more than “I do.” 

Marry someone who will love you for you.  Who will respect, honor and cherish you?  Marry someone who will live the rest of his life making sure that you are happy as you do the same for him.  You need someone who is consistently honest with who he is.  This is not the time to appreciate the abilities of a chameleon. The last thing you want to do is wake up to find out; you have been living with a stranger. Diva, when it comes to choosing a life partner, choose carefully, choose well. Give your marriage the best chance of being a happy, healthy long lasting relationship.  Marry someone that doesn’t play games out the gate. If he has no class before the marriage, there is a strong chance, he won’t have any after it.  The old folks use to say don’t write a check that your behind can’t cash.