So how is a girl supposed to know when she found Mr. Right
for her? That is the question of the
century and yes, we are still trying to answer that question. The truth is every girl has a list in her
mind of what she would like her Mr. Right for her to look like. We want him to be kind, successful, loving,
considerate, a protector, handsome with a sense of humor to boot. But is it realistic to expect one person to
meet our long list of must haves. In my
opinion, the question is no. Everybody
has their faults and so will your Mr. Right for you. It really is about your priorities. The deal breakers are just that, deal
breakers. For example, if you’re a Christian
and he’s an atheist that may be a deal breaker.
If you like to travel, but he hates it that may be something that can be
worked out.
The bottom line is, we want our Mr. Right to fit perfectly
into our live just as much as we must fit perfectly in his. There will certainly have to be some
compromise as all the pieces don’t always fit neatly together. So if you have too many differences and
nothing in common, it might not make for the best relationship. But if we have things in common and are opened
to making a few tweaks in the expectations, if the man meets the general
expectations, the relationship has a chance. Don’t get this confused with
settling – nope that is not what we do.
Divas don’t give up on love. We know it’s out there somewhere just waiting
for us to take notice. If we open our
hearts, but think with our brains, we will meet our Mr. Right for me and we’ll
be just fine.
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