Monday, January 15, 2018





I’m sure you can imagine how annoying it is when a person project their personal issues onto you.  People do this because they have a perception of who you think you are and if their self-esteem (in their mind) isn’t there then, they feel like the best way to handle this internal personal struggle is to lash out at you. The goal here is to do things that they feel will pull you down to size or in other words lower your self-esteem so that they can feel better about themselves.

So if you are wondering why some people are coming for your life and you barely notice they exist – well this is why.  You may not know them, but trust and believe they think they know you.  They have made up their minds on who you are (no one says it has to be accurate, usually it’s the farthest from the truth) and they are acting out based on that fabrication. 

Wouldn’t it be better for people like this to work on their self-esteem?  Would it be smarter to figure out why they don’t feel great about themselves and work to change it?  For example, you lost 50 pounds.  It’s not an impossibility that they can go ahead and do what they need to do to lose weight if their hang up is being overweight.  Or suppose you have a doctorates and they never went to college.  Last I checked the doors for college is opened to everyone.  What I’m saying is that, it is smarter to do what you need to feel better about yourself then it is to try to attack others we already have done their work.


What I would like to say to people who behave this way is, don’t let laziness and hate-eration make a fool out of you.  The bottom line is, that person who has high self-esteem because they are proud of who they are and what they have accomplished will never, never feel any different because you try to project your personal issues unto them.  Divas are rocks so don’t waste your time.  Don't mistake meekness for weakness.  Let me put it another way, it’s like waking a sleeping lion – are you sure you want to go there? I didn’t think so.  Get your life.

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