For the life of me, I can’t understand why woman share their personal business with people they know will share it with everyone else. What’s even more ridiculous is that time, after time, after time, they are surprised to hear their personal business in the streets.
Girl,
let me tell you something, there are different caliber of friends. Don’t get it twisted, like relatives – they do
not all behave the same way. I
understand that sometimes, it’s necessary to talk / vent. It helps to clear the mind, one may even get
a solution by talking or brainstorming with someone about a problem. But let’s be clear,
not everybody can: a. help you, b. want to help you and c. have the ability to
keep your private business private. If girlfriend blabber mouth is the only person
available when you feel you need a friend to talk to, diva put down the phone
and pick up a pen and a journal. Bounce
ideas off of yourself because at the end of the day, if you think you had a
problem before your business and words were shared and twisted, you won’t want
to see what your conversation has turned into after a few runs up and down the
underground railroad.
I’m
not saying not to forgive girlfriend blabber mouth, put please learn your life
lesson here girl. Share your private business
sparingly with people you can trust to keep it private. Some folks can’t hold water never mind your
business. Keep your conversation on a
superficial level with this type of person.
Talk about the weather, fashion, you know things that won’t channel your
inner evil Laquisha if you hear it repeated.
In other words, share with girlfriend blabber mouth what you want the
streets to hear. Don’t be driving the stress
train to your own front door diva.
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